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How To Really Change Your Live Today

July 3, 2013

Hi!

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Are you one those people (like me, and the majority of human population) who dreams about a life, but yet doesn’t really come closer to the realization of that dream-life?

Just because people around you are procrastinating, doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t worry about you not procrastinating.

This is your life. You are living right now, and sooner or later you suddenly enter the next decade of your life and are surprised that time went SO FAST. Like a flash. And that time is now gone and will never come back.

This is your life, and your life is now.

According to scientist and philosophers, or should I say; according to fact, there is no time and there is nothing but the “now”. So when you say “aaarh I’ll do it tomorrow” it is synonym to saying “aaarh I’ll never do it”.

Because “past” is only memories in our brains.

There is neither no past nor no future. There is simply; change.

Things are changing. Plants are growing or dying, people are growing or dying, things are created or destroyed = therefore things look different. It’s not because time has went by, it’s because everything is changing down to the tiniest atoms and particles, and it’s never going to stop changing.

The question is: are you changing? Either you are growing or dying – can’t be in the middle.

I don’t know where you are in your life, but as said earlier, there is probably a better life for you out there, and you know it.

But there is something holding you back – a job, friends, family, fear or a lack of money etc.

I’ve been there for a couple of years now. That pit stop. That state of waiting-for-something-to-happen.

Well, the true key to a new life comes down to one simple thing:

A decision.

And I don’t mean a half-hearted decision. There is actually is no such thing. There is decision, and then there is no decision.

  • A decision followed up by proper action.
  • A decision to stick with the plan.
  • A decision, whenever you feel lazy, to always visualize the end results  so action will be taken.
  • A decision to take a small action today, knowing that this boring little task mixed with patience WILL get you there.
  • A decision to understand, that life isn’t about the outcome, IT’S ABOUT THE PROCESS.

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If it’s too hard for you to actually STICK with the decision you’ve made, I have 2 suggestions for you that has worked for thousands of people who changed their lives successfully:

  1.  – Have a picture of your BIGGEST dream. Look at it everyday. Look at it when you get out of bed. Put it in your pocket. Tell yourself: “If I din’t do this little boring task, I’ll probably never make the dream a reality.”
  2. Put something AT STAKE. Give a friend 100$ and tell him/her to only gove them back when you’ve done X. Tell somebody who you look up to, that you are going to do X, then you will do more to reach your goal, to not look like a fool to that person.

Hope this make you make a clear defined decision to CHANGE YOUR LIFE ONCE AND FOR ALL, instead of wishing.

As Will Smith states in an interview:

“Make a choice. Just decide what it’s going to be, who you’re going to be, how you’re going to do it. Just DECIDE! And then from that point the universe is going to get out of your way.” – See more at: http://www.thirdminds.com/will-smiths-formula-for-success-in-just-10-minutes/#sthash.91SG2wIV.dpuf
“Make a choice. Just decide what it’s going to be, who you’re going to be, how you’re going to do it. Just DECIDE! And then from that point the universe is going to get out of your way.” – See more at: http://www.thirdminds.com/will-smiths-formula-for-success-in-just-10-minutes/#sthash.91SG2wIV.dpuf

“Make a choice. Just decide what it’s going to be, who you’re going to be, how you’re going to do it. Just DECIDE! And then from that point the universe is going to get out of your way.”

Have a great day! See you around.

– Jay

 

P.S. Let’s make this blog ALIVE. Please leave a comment and write about what decision(s) YOU’ve today or recently.

I’d be happy to hear from you.

From → Self Development

2 Comments
  1. I love this Will video!

  2. Yeah it’s an inspiring one!

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